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416 pages, Kindle Edition
First published March 4, 2025
Strong female friendships
A vivid portrayal of modern Nigeria
An honest look at the female body
Asking the question of how much of a woman's dreams are influenced by societal norms
The prose
Themes of love, friendship, immigration, and making a life of one’s own
Delve deeper to make this a novel of substance, for example the differing viewpoints on gender and power could have engendered discussion to challenge each woman's perspectives
Make clear why most of the men are portrayed on a sliding scale of badness. How does this serve the story?
Create American academics as fully realized individuals rather than as one-dimensional caricatures
I felt tight with discomfort. This conversation would be normal at a dinner in Lagos or Abuja, and everyone would talk like Omelogor, bold and baroque declarations topping one another. But here her words bruised the air. She didn’t know how to wear different selves like I did.
American English was spoken at a higher pitch than normal, and she wondered if she would ever perfect that pitch, even if she managed to get the words right.
I would finally blur his edges. I would pull him into the light. I would cure his insomnia and gently show him that we could need each other without losing ourselves. My illusions were so radiant then…
I wasn’t sure what he meant, but I agreed and felt chastised. I would have delighted in Darnell’s jealousy, but it wasn’t jealousy, because he knew I was blind to everything but him. It was control, a rationing of what I was allowed. He squashed my smallest pleasures, and I helped him flatten them, sinking myself into the mean crevices of his will.
…the clarity of hindsight is bewildering. If only we could see our failings while we are still failing.
Finally, as she opened the door, she tripped and nearly fell, catching herself, stumbling. The room had spit her out. She was now so worthless as to repel even a storage room. She felt hemmed in by shame, shame forced upon the innocent, glowing in unfairness.